Sunday, 11 November 2012

Counseling Blog ? Blog Archive ? Child therapy therapist

LifeWorks AZ has a specialty in working with children and families in counseling and therapy.

David Abrams MAPC LPC looks at : family dynamics, family behaviors , parenting, school, health, history, past behaviors, current behaviors , strengths of the child and areas that need support. He has worked with children and families at home, in the school system, foster care, as well as in the juvenile court.

The best approach looks at : your child?s thought process , parents thought process , self esteem , social skills , mood and stress management skills, healthy behaviors, unhealthy behaviors , boundaries , balance , sleep, and a complete history .

Behaviors will change with the correct approach and some professional guidance .

Source: http://www.lifeworksaz.com/counselors-blog/2012/11/child-therapy-therapist/

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Here's What's Wrong With The Economy - Business Insider

">Yepoka Yeebo / Business Insider

AS YOU pull out of Washington's Union Station on a north-bound train, you glide through a thicket of construction cranes erecting new offices and residential buildings.

The view couldn't be more different some 45 minutes later, as one passes block after block of decaying rowhouses in Baltimore's inner-city neighbourhoods. Indeed, for much of the journey to New York, the main view on offer is one of industrial decline?like the sad slogan "Trenton makes, the world takes", dating from 1935, visible on a bridge over the Delaware River in Trenton, New Jersey?that is the residue of an old American economy.

And then one approaches New York City, where cranes again dominate the skyline, building, among other things, a soaring skyscraper that will be home to just tens of billionaires.

In an interesting piece at the New York Times, Adam Davidson explores this geography between Washington and New York, chronicling some of the stories of those left behind by today's economy. His framing of the changing geography of the northeastern corridor is a little problematic, however. He writes:

For most of the 180 or so years of the train line?s existence, the endpoints of this journey ? New York and D.C. ? were subordinate to the roaring engines of productivity in between. The real value in America was created in Newark?s machine shops and tanneries, Trenton?s rubber and metal plants, Chester?s shipyard, Baltimore?s steel mills...

This model was flipped inside out as Wall Street and D.C. became central drivers, not secondary supports, of the nation?s economy. Now, on its route between them, the train passes directly through or near 8 of the 10 richest counties in the United States, but all of this wealth is concentrated near the endpoints of the journey...

[I]n the case of those areas surrounding the capital, wealth has gravitated to the exact spot where government regulation is created. Why? Because many businesses discovered that renegotiating the terms between government and the private sector can be extraordinarily lucrative. A few remarkable books by professors at N.Y.U.?s Stern School of Business argue that a primary source of profit for Wall Street over the past 15 to 20 years could be what I call the Acela Strategy: making money by exploiting regulation rather than by creating more effective ways to finance the rest of the economy.

It is unquestionably true that some of the recent economic strength of Washington and New York can be traced to unhealthy rent-seeking. The rise of the defence-contractor economy of Northern Virginia is troubling, as is the unholy relationship between Wall Street and Washington regulators. Yet to pin the broad changes in the geography of the northeastern corridor (and similar shifts across the nation and rich world as a whole) on an explosion in rent-seeking is a mistake. The real story is more interesting: the economic role of the city itself has changed.

The great cities of the northeastern corridor boomed to their massive size during the industrial revolution. Between 1790 and 1860 the population of New York City (which, contrary to the implication of the Times piece, has been the behemoth of the Northeast for two centuries) rose by at least 50% per decade. New York, and the other industrial cities of the corridor, were built on a very straightforward economics. At the time, shipping by sea was cheap while shipping (or indeed traveling) over land was prohibitively expensive. Port cities therefore became factory cities. Raw materials were shipped into ports like New York, Philadelphia, and Baltimore, transformed by the local industry, and then shipped back out to destination markets. These industries provided direct employment for hundreds of thousands of workers, and fueled the growth of other sectors as well, from retail to finance and insurance.

But over the course of the 20th century, the pattern of transport costs that held this world together changed dramatically. Highways and the automobile allowed richer residents to move out of central jurisdictions to nearby suburbs. That robbed central places of an important source of tax revenue and led to declining public services, which encouraged still more suburbanisation. Highways, and new shipping technologies, also allowed manufacturers to escape the high real-estate and labour costs of port cities. Industry began to migrate to suburbs, then to the American South, and then abroad. For some time these trends seemed to spell doom for the Northeastern cities. But in fact, they created a different sort of economic gravity, which has in turn led to renewed growth across the region.

Falling transport and communication costs raised the return to ideas by expanding the global market over which good ones could be exploited. In doing so, they made clusters conducive to idea generation and new business formation more lucrative. Just as important, shifting space-hungry manufacturing elsewere enabled a reshaping of cities around human rather than bulky physical capital. A piece in a recent special report describes this evolution:

You might imagine that the dramatic fall in the cost of communications and computing would have pushed firms in the information-technology industry (among others) farther apart. Natural resources do not matter to them; all they need is a good internet connection. The ease of online communication should reduce the need for their people to be close together in order to work, to deal with customers and suppliers or to swap ideas. Young companies really can pick their spot. That would seem to count against Silicon Valley, where premises are costly, and against London and New York, which are not only expensive but also lack California?s high-tech history. Berlin is cheaper, but there are plenty of places all over Europe where costs are lower.

Yet although you can find tech companies of all shapes and sizes almost anywhere, the smaller ones especially have a fondness for huddling together. Jed Kolko, Trulia?s chief economist, puts this down mainly to the continuing attraction of a deep pool of skilled labour. ?The less an industry needs to be near natural resources, its suppliers or its customers,? he says, ?the more it?s likely to cluster where its workers want to live.?

Research in economic geography turns up a strong relationship between city size and productivity in cities with high levels of human capital. The northeast is changing from city-as-factory to city-as-executive-suite and city-as-research-lab. As Matt Yglesias notes here, the resulting prosperity is hardly confined to Washington and New York, most of the corridor's large metropolitan areas are rich relative to the rest of the country. When passing through Baltimore and Philadelphia, one can look up from rows of vacant homes to see gleaming towers and new condo developments. The big story in these places is the change in the return to skills. It's one that shows up in national income data as well as along northeastern train routes.

The difficulty this creates for the northeastern corridor is that this kind of clustering creates a demand for a different set of workers (and often a different infrastructure) than was necessary a century ago. Adjustment to this shift in labour demand has been taxing for major cities, but more importantly it has placed a great deal of stress on middle-income workers, whose talents are no longer needed. Cities continue to serve as engines of wealth-creation, but they are less effective as engines of broad economic mobility than they once were.

It's interesting to think about the history of the ports of New York in this context. (See Marc Levinson's book The Box for more on the subject.) Once upon a time, New York's port was in New York. Docks stretched along the Manhattan and Brooklyn waterfronts, providing work for thousands of longshoremen who earned a good living loading and unloading breakbulk cargo more-or-less by hand. Over the second half of the last century, however, the rise of container shipping led to an explosion in trade and huge declines in the cost of many goods. Across New York's harbor in Newark, New Jersey, one now sees massive container-port operations, shipping vastly more cargo than New York City previously managed with far fewer workers. Back in Manhattan, the old dock areas are now home to gleaming towers full of skilled professionals. Technological change transformed the economy of the New York area and made both it and the country vastly richer. But that change also helped hollow out the middle of the labour force, in New York itself and across the country. The middle-class dock workers who once occupied charming townhomes in neighbourhoods in Brooklyn or Baltimore have too often become poor residents of those cities or have left altogether.

I think there is room to blame rent-seeking in cities for the fate of some middle-income workers. The dynamic that troubles me, however, is that of the NIMBY, who restricts access to the best neighbourhoods or?by fighting development and therefore raising housing costs?to the most productive cities, thereby discouraging marginal workers from locating in such places and taking advantage of the opportunities that are available. But the story of the recent remaking of the northeast corridor is just a continuation of the long interaction between industry, technology, and geography that has characterised rich economies since the earliest days of the industrial revolution. It's a broadly positive thing that ought to be accommodated, rather than evidence of the parasitic growth of Washington and New York.

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Source: http://www.businessinsider.com/heres-whats-wrong-with-the-economy-2012-11

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How Sandy spurred an Airbnb revolution

By Virginia Heffernan

Someone should do an expos? of Airbnb, the shadowy ?vacation rental service? that?s giving away free rooms to refugees of superstorm Sandy. Point out it?s illegal for people to convert their studies into hotel rooms. Lament the blow that Airbnb might yet deal to the hospitality industry. Opine that sleeping on a stranger?s couch is plain creepy.

Someone should write that piece. Just not me.

Because even though I live in cold-hearted New York City, I?m a sucker for the groovy Airbnb fantasy?even though I learned the hard way (actually using Airbnb) that that fantasy doesn?t work for me.

On Airbnb, you list any sleepable place to happen to have jurisdiction over?anything from a spare bed in a room to a spare room in a house to a spare seaside palace on 40 acres. You also post dates it?s free. The lovely, searchable site then suggests?based on your area?what you might charge per night for what you?re offering.

In my imagination, Airbnb is home to a steampunk billionaire couch-surfer lifestyle that I?m undercapitalized for, and way too square. People who use Airbnb?sleep on other people?s sofabeds and rent out their own?get to act noble and lo-fi, talking heroically about sharing-economy startups, while someone like Sequoia Capital keeps them in kale chips, iPad minis and medical marijuana. Let me spell it out: I?m jealous!

And now those Portlandia types even merit #OccupySandy hoodies. Because Airbnb?as if the company weren?t righteous enough with its emphasis on communitarianism and ?reducing the ecological footprint of travel??is hosting those East Coasters affected by superstorm Sandy for free. As the company?s blog puts it, "There are thousands more people in need of shelter. And there are still thousands of people with extra space. It's time to come together.?

Isn?t that beautiful? What?s more beautiful still is how many trusting, openhearted Airbnb types are actually taking part in this DIY love-in. They breezily vet possible tenants on Facebook?making sure they went to Reed or Oberlin or have friends who did?and throw open their doors to whatever Justin or Daisy ambles in. Quinoa?s already on the table; the cat?s name is Ada Lovelace. Wi-Fi password? Namaste.

Doesn?t that Age-of-Aquarius NorCal attitude make you selfish New Yorkers ashamed that, after all these blizzards, storms, floods and fires, you feel like jumping the gas line, hoarding DD batteries and bolting the door against looters?

But wait?isn?t it only natural to batten down in a storm? And the truth is, and I?m not just being uptight: Airbnb is kind of illegal. It has essentially opened tens of thousands of unlicensed hotels around the world, many in neighborhoods that are meant to be residential. It has also kicked off a trend of ?hoteling?: renting or commandeering uninhabited industrial spaces in desirable cities and cutting them up into bedrooms, sometimes with mere partitions. Each one of these beds can be booked most nights of the year on Airbnb. I?m told?hearsay, but solid hearsay?that some Brooklynites make good money this way

Airbnb, for its part, says these year-round Airbnb properties are anomalous. Rather, the people who use Airbnb, says the company, are closer to stranger-houseguests who pay in cash rather than jars of jam and scented candles. Given Facebook and certain global village-reputation-checking methods (people post reviews on Airbnb), a would-be host may even feel he knows his Airbnb guest as well as he?d know, say, a friend of a friend.

That was the case when, last Christmas, I used the service to find tenants (the parents of a neighbor, it turns out) for my empty apartment?and recouped the costs of my flight and all holiday presents!

But, I was nervous while I was on holiday. Were the tenants happy? Did they like my taste in upholstery? Had I cleaned the place enough, hidden my weird self-help books carefully enough? Wait, no, were they keeping it clean? Had they broken the dishwasher? Did the doorman suspect me of hoteling?

I came home to a sparklingly clean apartment, a lovely thank-you note and a fat check. Huge relief. But my racing thoughts had kept me from fully enjoying my vacation.

And the lesson of that magical Christmas season turned out to be one I seem to need to learn and relearn: I am not a low-key, lo-fi, peer-to-peer San Francisco person. No matter how hard I try. This year I plan to tape my windows to protect them from the winds, lock my place up tight as a drum and enjoy my vacation far from this weather-beaten city.

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/hurricane-sandy-and-the-airbnb-revolution-1209123245.html

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Zynga Announces Acquisition Of November Software To Build 'Mid ...

Zynga announced this morning that it has acquired game developer November Software for an undisclosed amount.

The acquisition apparently occurred back in the spring, but Zynga is only announcing it now, in part so that it can drop a few hints about the game that the November team is working on. Back in September, the company had already signaled its intention to move into mid-core gaming (which has a smaller but potentially more lucrative audience) with the acquisition of A Bit Lucky.

In a post on the Zynga blog, co-founder Szymon Swistun says his team formed November ?to bring console gaming experiences to mobile by using our expertise from working at LucasArts on games like Star Wars: The Force Unleashed 1 and 2.? As for why he joined Zynga, Swistun writes:

Speaking with the folks at Zynga, we were immediately blown away with the conviction and energy they had about making kick-ass mobile games that leave a strong, memorable impression on players. We realized we could accelerate game development by combining our team?s expertise building blockbuster console games and Zynga?s strength in building social games on a massive scale.

Zynga still isn?t sharing too many details about the game, but Swistun did say that he?s been working with ?the original team from Mafia Wars? and he revealed the name: Battlestone.

Source: http://techcrunch.com/2012/11/09/zynga-november-software/

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Illuminate Blog ? Winning the kid lottery: how adoption changed my ...

Our family continued to adjust and grow together. Brandon sometimes recognized gaps in his early years and we did our best to fill those in. One time when he was seven or eight, he asked me if we could read some fairy tales and said, ?I never go to hear those when I was little.? So we read fairy tales.

We had great times and tough times. Steve and I had not had much conflict in our marriage until we became parents. Once we adopted Brandon, there were differences from our own upbringing and stress from parenting that presented challenges. Brandon went back and forth sometimes in his attachment to us. We would feel close and then he would get scared and act out. Children who have had significant disruption and loss in their early years can be scared of closeness because closeness can be associated with loss for them. If parents don?t understand this paradoxical behavior, it can be really hurtful and confusing.

Being a counselor myself, I was inclined to seek counseling to help all of us adjust and thrive through the years. We found it challenging sometimes to find mental health professionals that were really skilled in dealing with adoption issues. We needed assistance with Brandon?s attachment, managing Brandon?s ADHD, Steve and me adjusting to being parents, raising a child drawn to thrill-seeking behaviors. We also wrestled with the same issues many families face as kids grow up.

Sadly, some adoptions do not last. Stresses can build up and without counselors who really understand how to help, families can end up coming apart. We were fortunate to find good help and we had support from family and friends. I also think that Brandon is a particularly resilient child. One advantage of his impulsiveness is that he tends to say whatever he is thinking out loud. (Trust me, this is good news and bad news!) However, it helped us understand his needs and we were able to weather all the challenges that came our way.

Now Brandon is 20. He?s living at home and working right now. We hope he will go to college or vocational school later on but he tried it right after he graduated and he just couldn?t sit in a classroom any more for now. He loves being active. Construction is the job he?s liked best so far?on his first day they put him in a harness and had him climb something really high and then they had him use power tools. Plenty of excitement so he was hooked!

I read this post to Brandon and asked him what he would say about his adoption. He said, ?I think I got raised in a better family than I would have if I had stayed with my birth mom. Being with my (adoptive) parents helped me forget about the bad stuff that had happened to me. I would want to be adopted by my mom and dad again if I had a choice. I don?t remember all the tough times we had when I was growing up but I remember I had some tantrums. Sometimes I thought they worried too much and were too strict. I know my mom and dad will always stick by me no matter what happens. I had some hard things happen last year and my parents did everything they could to help me.??

When Brandon was younger, Steve and I used to speak at MAPP classes sometimes. Once I asked Brandon what he thought parents should know when they are going to adopt a kid. He said, ?Tell them that the kid is sometimes really scared even if he doesn?t want to be scared. He might not want to say he is scared but the parents should remember that so they can help him.? Brandon gave us the gift of his trust and he took the risk of loving us. This is no small risk for a kid who has been hurt by loved ones and separated from them. I think he was really brave and I?m so glad he was.

With all the ups and downs, would we do it again? Absolutely! I feel incredibly grateful for the gift of our family. People often worry that there is a lot of uncertainty in adopting an older child?you don?t always know what they?ve been through and how their early experiences of abuse or neglect might have affected them. I believe there?s uncertainly in all parenting. Children who are nurtured from the moment of conception can develop illnesses or other problems. No one can totally control the experiences we have in life. Significant upset and even trauma touch most families at one time or another.

More importantly, love, resilience, support and guidance can also be a part of every family?s journey. To me, it doesn?t matter so much how your family gets created?what I think matters is what you create together.

If you would like to learn more about adoptions from foster care, you can visit the website of? Community Based Care of Central Florida at http://cbccfl.org/. We have included information from CBCCFL regarding this year?s National Adoption Day activities here:

Every year on the Saturday before Thanksgiving, a coalition of child welfare organizations, such as ours, Community Based Care of Central Florida (CBCCFL) sponsor National Adoption Day. This year, on Friday November 16, we invite you to participate in Orange, Seminole and Osceola Counties.

National Adoption Day is a collective national effort to raise awareness of the more than 100,000 children in foster care who are waiting for families. At the heart of National Adoption Day are thousands of children, parents, judges, adoption professional, volunteer lawyers and child advocates and community members who come together to finalize the adoptions of children in foster care to celebrate all the families who adopt. In the tri-county area, we expect to finalize 45-50 adoptions on this special day.? ? ? ? ?

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